Methodology - part 2

After having other chats with some more experienced people in the methodology domain I suppose that the main choices as methodology are: RUP, XP and Agile...

Apparently Agile is the most modern and combines XP and RUP. You can find more info about this methodology on http://www.agilemodeling.com/

I also asked the opinion at Steven Feuerstein and what he was using. His (brief) answer:
"I don't follow any single methodology in a hard and fast way; I definitely lean to the lightweight meths., like XP and Agile. In my current main development projects, Qnxo and Qute (www.qnxo.com and www.unit-test.com), I rely heavily on table APIs and avoid writing SQL whenever possible (Qnxo generates the table APIs for me!)."

The quest goes on... I will post more about this when I find more info and make my final decision.